let me aks you people a question what is the essence of a gut kissing a lady yet he knows he has not yet ended up his previous relkationship is it really logic? Does anyone have a right to do that i do not think so atleast one should try and respect the other person decision and feelings. People should know that human beings are not machines they have feelings and emotions and they do get hurt when these emotions and feelings are disturbed in one way or another. So am kindly asking before any of you does anythign consider how it will affect other people put their interest first before doing the act.

WILL LIFE CONTROL YOU OR WILL YOU CONTROL IT?

    When life gives you a hard blow you just cannot sit there and wait for something to happen you will have to stand up and fend for yourself. if you sit there waiting upon peopel to have pity on you you will only get more dissapointed and hurt. take a situation where a girl meet a guy on facebook through chatting and after chatting for sometime somwe love blossoms between them after about a month the gut does not appear on facebook. worry starts creeping in in the young girl's heart and she start questioning Was he just palting with my emotions? Was he just feeling my mind with fanatasies? Remmenber all this while the girlhas not yet met the guy but  she is alsready acting worried. time passes by and the guy suddenly appears and tell thje girl i was accused wrongly over some land issue so i had to stay in jail. Liitle did the girl know that the guy had been seeing another woman and he had even gone to bed with her and the lady was even carrying the guy's baby. The guy woed his way back into the girl's heart once again and the girl's face once again shone with radiance. The poor girl felt so happy that the love of her life was back again. One thing though is that the uy never communicated on phone and every time the girl asked her why he kept on saying it was matter reklated to his family.
   The girl took it calmly and convinced herself that with time maybe the guy will change but she was so wrong. To add insult to injurythe guy was smoking and an adamant alcoholic something the girl found out after deeper investigation. The habit of the guy was to keep on dissapearing and appearing. He did this severally until the poor girl got tired of asking and she though maybe this is just the tough times of the relationship and that  the storm would pass and paradise would come. In the month of july the guy atleast tried and called the girl everyday and the girl though wow! he is atleast changing but that was just a show off. A new semester came and the girl had to go back to school and the night mare started once again by the guy forgetting her 21 birthday. People you know how event such as birthdays and anniversaries are important to ladies right. So you can picture how she felt. The habit changed to weekend after weekend the guy kept on saying he was coming to pick up the girl to show her his home so that they could spend time together. Alas! whenever the weekends reached he kept on saying he is caught up until the girl stared loosing hope. she spent times crying and cursin why she enterde int o such a relationship but she could do nothing. Then came that fateful day that fateful monday afternoon when the poor girl was in her class break when the guy called her and told her that he had had a one night stand and the lady i had told you earlier was having his baby. it was like a nightmare to the poor girl. Her whole worl came crumbling down and she felt so betrayed and so out of place. She felt humiliated, cheap, wasted and all the bad feelings one can have but oh no! it was reality check pap! It hit her so hard. She had no choice but to end the fateful relationship.That is when they guy showed up to beg her not to leave her but oops! it was a liitle too late and the girl said she was not going back. Finally her eyes were open but after she was hurt badly.  The sad thing is that they gut keep on pursuing her and i s not giving her peace. He keeps on saying he cant stand seeing her in another man's arm. But hey peple the girl has a life and she has to move on no matter what and there is no stopping her. she has decided to finally stand up on her own and she does not want anyone pitying her. So you peoplr who are out there crying ove r broke n relationships do not expect peopel to have pity on you. You have to stand up on your two feet and forge ahead because life, my dear people is wah one make it. So choose will you let life control you or will you control your life.

quote

"you are the most despeakabl;e liar that ever walked on shoe leather how about that"

"then comes kisebusebu na kiroho papo"

"we have if you vant beat them join the"

as tym goes by ppel keep on coming up with quotes waht will you come up with that we may enjoy.

is it true that when people asre after  something they do anything to get it? what are some of the things people do am iinterested?

POLITICS

Some say it is a dirty game, some it is made up of haters n some its full of dictators. You know what all this opinions are right. I would rather be a witch than a politician. All they do is make citizens suffer and curse. day in day out they keep on making themselve rich at the expense of very innocent citizens who chose them to represent them and to be their voice. I know what is running in many of you heads right now. that instead of compaining why dont i go ahead and contest a political sit. halllo this is kenya. the only way i can be able to convince citizens to vote for me is by showering them with money, since that is what many of them have been made to believe right? what do you think now? exactly you now do not have anything to say. all in all i know we cannot live without politics because it seem to be what defines any given nation in any given continent. well we just have to find a way to survive amidst the many problems that are brought along by the politicians. it is the only way we will survive. this is because the world has turned in such a manner that with politics it is a matter of survival for the fittest. that is the only way we will love. to sign off everyone just sit back and imagine a world without politics how would it be?

Taking it easy

AKING IT EASY

You shud always take everything easy in life and be confident that waht u are doin is the right thing and by doing this ypu will have a simple but happy and comfortable life

LIFE IS TWISTED

it is ammazing how life has change d so much. remember the days when children belonged to the entire community andanyone could punish you if you had done anytihn wrong? well gone are those days nowadays not even parents can discipline their own children because a child can stand up on you and tell yopu that you have no write to punish him or her.
 Another thing is the games children used to play, they have changed. take for example when we used to play hide and seek, skipping ropes among many others. nowadays children are confined into the play stations, video games among others. they do not want to go out and play the way it used to be.
  Question i will pause is Who is to blame for all this? is it technology, the world, the parents or nobody at all?. I do not dispute the fact that technology is goo because that is waht is making me blog right no but then arent human beings the ones who created this technology?then dont we also have th epowere to control it? i believe we do? it is so sad to see the younger generation confined into the computers and all they do all day long is to browse on the internet. Most of them with ill motives since all they do is maybe look at the ponographic materials posted in the net or some irrelevant issues which do not add any value in their lives. I do not dispute the fact that it is sometimes good to chat via network such as facebook, twiter, hi5 among others, but the question we sholud all ask ourselves is how much time do we spend chatting is it quality time or just wastage of time? after all is said and dome the ball entirely remains in our courts are we improving our lives or destroying it further